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It's Time to Rewrite Your Life

March 25, 20251 min read

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Let me share something that hit me this week.

It was leg day—not exactly the day anyone circles on the calendar. I was already in my head, debating if I even wanted to train. And when I finally got to the gym, the equipment I needed was taken.

That was the moment. I could’ve left. Could’ve made the excuse.
But instead—I adjusted. Found a new route and got to work.

Because the truth is, being relentless isn’t about things going according to plan. It’s about showing up when they don’t.

That session wasn’t a physical win—it was a mental one. The kind that reinforces the habit of doing what you said you’d do… even when it’s inconvenient. Especially when it’s inconvenient.

Here are 7 ways to break the habit of excuses and build consistency:

  1. Decide in advance – Don’t wait until the moment to choose. Commit early.

  2. Focus on the action, not the outcome – Getting there is often the hardest part.

  3. Build flexibility into your routine – Life won’t always go according to plan. Have options.

  4. Reframe the challenge – Obstacles reveal the areas we need to grow.

  5. Hold yourself accountable – Whether it’s a friend or a journal—track it.

  6. Celebrate small wins – Progress builds momentum.

  7. Reflect and adjust – Setbacks are feedback. Use them.

You don’t need perfect conditions. You need the decision to keep moving—imperfectly, consistently, relentlessly.

So here’s the question:
What’s one excuse you’re done letting lead?

Let’s climb,

Todd Stottlemyre is a former Major League Baseball pitcher, entrepreneur, and bestselling author. Known for his mental toughness and leadership on and off the field, Todd now shares his insights on personal development, mental resilience, and achieving peak performance in life and business.

Todd Stottlemyre

Todd Stottlemyre is a former Major League Baseball pitcher, entrepreneur, and bestselling author. Known for his mental toughness and leadership on and off the field, Todd now shares his insights on personal development, mental resilience, and achieving peak performance in life and business.

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